How the high “S” works with . . . 

 

High D:

During stressful times and conflict the High “S” might:

  • View the High ”D” as argumentative, dictatorial, arrogant, domineering, nervous, and hasty
  • Be intimidated by the “D”s confrontational approach
  • Not get angry, but will get even
  • Withdraw and slow down the action

To Have An Effective Relationship:

  • Must have direct communication; deal with issues in a straightforward manner; negotiate commitments and goals on an equal basis

High I:

During stressful times and conflict the High “S” might:

  • View the High “I” as egocentric, superficial, overly optimistic, glib, too self-assured, and inattentive
  • On the surface, the relationship will look good
  • Slow down the action and pace of High “I”
  • High “S” protects his/her position
  • Avoid taking a stand and confronting

To Have An Effective Relationship:

  • Be friendly, complimentary, listen to ideas, and recognize High “I”s accomplishments


High S:

During stressful times and conflict the High “S” might:

  • View another High “S” as dependable, self-controlled, patient, kind, accommodating, and attentive
  • Be supportive to each other, but little will be accomplished
  • Avoid confrontation and seldom disagree openly
  • Set goals by external means to accomplish results

To Have An Effective Relationship:

  • Move at a steady pace; express appreciation; establish a friendship with another High “S”

High C:

During stressful times and conflict the High “S” might:

  • View the High “C” as overly dependent, evasive, defensive, too focused on details, and too cautious
  • Be similar to the High “C” – does not hurry & is passive
  • Be both reluctant to make decisions
  • Translate the High “C” coolness as personal rejection
  • Push to build a relationship

To Have An Effective Relationship:

  • Present facts clearly and be well prepared for discussion. Remove any potential threats. Expect High “C” to express doubts and give them time to evaluate data before making a decision.

 

If you have not previously taken the DISC assessment or do not know your DiSC Personality Profile, you can take the assessment online at  https://www.legacyconsultinginstitute.com/workshops-and-assessments/disc/

 

MICHELE BURCH REID, MS FOUNDER OF LCI

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