Personality Type & Relationships- INTJ

Understanding your personality type and the type of those around you can improve communication, relationships, intimacy, team, and organizational productivity, employee engagement & retention, satisfaction, enjoyment & happiness, and so much more.

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Personality Type & Relationships

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INTJs tend to:

  • strive for independence for themselves and their mates
  • ways they give to their partner is often invisible (patience, giving space, etc)
  • be constantly embarking on “fix-up” projects to improve the overall quality of their lives and relationships
  • believe in constant growth in relationships
  • not be “touchy-feely” and overly affirming with their mates
  • take their relationships and commitments seriously
  • be extremely intelligent and capable
  • live much of their lives inside their own heads
  • be able to leave relationships when they’re over, and get on with their lives
  • be highly intense, intelligent people who bring a lot of depth and insight into their relationships
  • be difficult to read
  • like to give advice but usually wait until it is asked for, rather than impose it on others

INTJs value in their partners:

  • intelligence
  • competence
  • achievement
  • ingenuity
  • complexity
  • appreciation for who they are

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About the author

Michele Burch Reid, MS, founder of LCI,  is an Organizational Effectiveness & Personal Development Consultant and Coach. Michele has a master’s degree in Industrial/Organizational Psychology, as well as several certifications.  She helps clients create overall satisfaction & potential by tapping into their natural strengths with Personality Type, Emotional Intelligence